What Makes a Marriage Work?
Compatibility is the missing link to success in all relationships. It's especially important in relationships you choose, like in marriage or in business, where remaining connected and on the same page is so important. Without compatibility, even the strongest feelings and best intentions can't save the day.
Ever wonder why marriages fail? Here are the top four reasons for divorce:
- false assumptions about what makes a marriage work
- emotional or physical attraction that doesn't hold up to life stresses
- lack of understanding of one's self or one's partner prior to marriage
- marrying the wrong person for the wrong reasons
What's the single greatest influence on life satisfaction? Marital success! The Compatibility Code helps you ask the right pre-marriage questions, and then choose wisely.
"Many of us have spent our lifetime wishing, hoping against all hope, that we really will find our Prince Charming. We want the Hollywood ending, and while I firmly believe that "happily ever after" is possible, it is the way that we've gone about finding our Prince Charming that is the trouble. We stay so focused on the emotions of the fairy tale, that it's likely that we missed the real culprit to our problem. We fall in love and then attempt to determine if he's right. The ideal is to first establish what we should be looking for and then let the emotion develop after we found someone who at least initially fits the bill. The violations of this ideal has created heaps of trouble because we have used emotion, fueled by books and movies, as a guide to tell us what to look for in a mate, how to search or wait for a mate, and horrors, what to expect in a marriage."
The Compatibility Code is for women who want to make better choices in order to find a love that lasts a lifetime. Following the Code takes the guesswork out of compatibility—and the emotion out of decision-making—to help you walk confidently into a lifelong, harmonious relationship.
